My Personal Experience of Love…
When i think of my past love, i view it as a failure. But I have learned that when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. What is important is you know when to hold on or to let go. You know you really love someone when you want him to be happy, even if his happiness means that you’re not part of it. Everything happens for the best. You’ll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. But i know that love doesn’t hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test me, to help me grow.
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose your true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return. I have learned that I should be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand.
Love is like a knife. It van stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the sou; that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for all the gloomy days, I should be thankful for I know that they were the things that helped me grow.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only God knows why.
The people you meet who affect you life, and the success and downfalls you experience, create who you are, and even the bad experiences can be learned from; in fact, they are probably the poignant and important ones.
I have learned that if someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them; for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
LOVE is an experience; something that is important in life. That if love is not there, it’s as if your life is not complete. That’s why I have learned that showing ones feeling is not bad for you are willing to accept its consequences. Willing to accept that loving is not asking in return but by giving what you can to the person that you love…
by: SHEENA DELES
March 14th, 2007 at 1:14 am
Asssssssssssssusssssssssssss!Very dramatic naman ng personal experience mo about love…Bogga!
May 5th, 2007 at 2:05 pm
check! girl! nice ideas! love is being real and practical…relationship, especially love is a process. it needs to grow before you can express to him that you trully love him. being in a relationship is a good and beautiful feeling especially if it is true love. that’s why when you are already in that stage then something went wrong, its so hard to let go…but as what you said, letting go is part of loving…maybe you were not really for each other. and if ever, you are, someday, somehow you will meet again…its through, destiny is sometimes unbelieving..but fate is not dear fren… GOd designs for us, but we decide how we go through it…GOD bless!!!